Isn't it important to make sure that when in a relationshipn that you stay and individual and you don't rely on the other person to make you happy? They make you happy because of who they are right? But if for some reason they have a prior obligation that they informed you about in advance shouldn't you just do something that you enjoy for the night and see them the next day? My girlfriend just mopes most of the time when I have other stuff to do, its driving me to the point of distraction, I have a party I have to be at tonight and I told her to go out and have fun and she said no cuz she'll just miss me at the end of tonight. Shes not allowed to goto the party btw. Am I wrong?