Growing up and now living in a pretentious and cosmopolitan part of Dallas, there seems to be a certain expectation to date girls you meet at debutant balls who look like models. However, I've been dating a slighly overweight girl and I feel bad, for her, when I take her out with friends. They don't say anything when she's around but they do crack jokes when she's not around. I'm by no means a shallow person and I really like hanging out with this girl but I just don't want her to hear some of the things they're saying. Should I just keep hanging out with her and not care about what my friends say or just see her when they're not around?