There are two issue that family keeps constantly bringing up at events, dinners, parties, get togethers, etc. My family knows I have been single for god knows many years now. I am 25 and havent brought home any girl for them to meet, for..well....ever. I have had girlfriends, but just not serious enough to bring them home to mom and dad. Last night, we were attending a function for my bro in laws graduation in getting his pilot license, and what do you know, sitting at the table with everyone (pppsssst everyone is married but me ). The issue comes up once again, "so wheres your lady?" "Why are you still single?" "When are you going to find someone?" "Have you met any girls yet?" What am I to say to this? It's the same ol' shit every fuckin time we're out. I know it's getting depressing and reductant, every event we go to, whether its Christmas, Thanksgiving, birthdays, weddings, whatever....Im always "the" one there alone, without a significant other. What am I to do? JESUS CHRIST Its not like Im not trying, but when they keep constantly reminding me about it, how do you think that makes me feel? Do they not think that times like Christmas, are tough for me for this very reason? Also, the 2nd issue that seems to always arise every fuckin time is my body weight. I am 6'2, 175lbs. I know, yes I am skinny/very lean and could use another 20-25lbs. My family, always fuckin brings it up and do they honestly not think that I want to gain this weight? WTF...why the fuck do you think im working out for? On top of that taking supplements - whey proteins, etc (no roids). But it's my high metabolism that makes it near impossible, as I cant gain any weight by eating more. Trust me, I already eat a ton for such a lean guy. People just in general (not just family) always ask me, how I stay say thin when I eat so much. I suppose though, that could be seen as a compliment, am I right? And then when my sister sees dumbells and workout equip. in my basement, she goes "you're working out? One of my sisters last night goes "are you trying to gain weight or something?" with this "uhh why" type look on her face, and I said "no why." Had I said yes, then they most likely would have just criticized me. I know Im fuckin skinny and it makes me very self cautious, why remind me every fuckin time? Because maybe Im the only unproportioned figure in the family? I fuckin know that Im a stick already! If it wasnt for my super high metab. I would have a much easier time gaining weight. I just dont get why they have to bring it up every fuckin time - gain weight, gain weight, gain weight...and everything with be alright. Like last night, one of my sisters go "How much do you weigh again?" ...So I say it 175...then next thing you know, one of my bro in law goes "if you can get up to 200lbs by next year, it will be good." Uhhh, much easier said than done, how about lets start with 5lb increments first. Then next thing you know, another person at the table starts joining in the conversation "You're height is fine now you just have to start growing the other way." Next thing you know, my body weight becomes the major topic of discussion, and I'm just like OH MY GOD, have this stop please!!!