my gf totalled her car on wed night, so we spent our entire valentines day/anniversary pretty weird.. she has been saying she wanted a pet, and she really liked her cats at her parents, so on monday i told her i wanted to get her a kitten for vday/anniversary, she SEEMED to love the idea, went out to petsmart and walmart and bought all the necessary supplies, surfed the net to find the perfect kitten etc. wed. night she gets hit and her car is totalled (not her fault) the next morning my radio is stolen, and i spend most of vday talking to police and the likes. her roomate said she hated cats, but my gf told me that she told him that a long time ago because she said dogs were cooler, but we dont have time or space for a dog in our apt. i picked the cat up today, she is still REAL banged up from the wreck but ever since i brought the cat home my gf has acted like she is really mad at me. every cat question i asked she got really frustrated and basically told me "whatever" i cant really talk to her about ANYTHING anymore because it hurts her when she laughs, so i cant joke with her, she told me she doesnt want my input on her wreck and aftermath after we fought all vday about me wanting her to talk to a lawyer and her not wanting to. she told me she doesnt want me talking about her new car, so i basically have nothing at all to talk about.. anyway, i asked her "should i feed him?" and she said "do whatever you want,im going to let you do whatever you want im not going to intrude" in that tone of voice thats like "im fucking pissed i want nothing to do with you" i said "whats wrong? i thought you wanted to get a kitten we can always take him back we have a few days trial-persay" she said "look, i dont care what you do with the cat, you only got him to keep at my place because your landlord wont let you keep a pet at your place, do whatever you want with him its not my deal" then she went to sleep at 8, so ive been trying to figure out what to do with this little guy.. he has become REALLY attached to me, and i really dont know how to handle this situation... help?