I used to value sex so highly that I would structure my life and activities around it. Simply, I would do things that would contribute to getting laid. For example, if I had a choice of plans for the night, in terms of what to do and where to party, and I knew that a girl who wanted my dick would be at one of those parties, I would of course go to that party. As time passed, I thoroughly enjoyed sex and continued to chase tail, which of course, led to getting laid. I made the conclusion that (having sex) -> (being happy). At some point in between valuing sex so highly and now, I started to have the self-realization that sex is just an activity that feels good. It doesn't lead to being happy. At this point in time, I have come to be neutral about having sex. I no longer give a shit. I really don't care any more whether or not I go out and get to add a notch on my belt. It doesn't do anything for me anymore. I used to feel so happy and accomplished when I would fuck a girl. However, now, having sex isn't a big deal. My reason for making this thread is that I want to know what you guys think of this. Is this weird? Abnormal? Or perhaps maybe it is normal? I don't know, I just feel that my view on getting laid is not common. Don't get me wrong, though. I still go out on a regular basis, talk to girls, hang with girls, etc. I just don't care whether or not I fuck. I feel most guys get pissed when they go on a date and don't get laid because they're expecting to do so. I used to be one of them. Now, I no longer have that expectation and it seems like an odd change. Now, I go out to have fun, meet people, and extend my network and reach of influence. Anyways, to sum this all up, I guess I could say that sex has moved down on my list of priorities. That's not to say that I don't enjoy sex or that I would deny it. I'm merely trying to express my indifference towards looking at it as an accomplishment. Thoughts?