Her family isn't likely to pay for much of anything, and neither is mine, so we're going to be footing the bill. As a result, we're planning on making things cheap, aka non-formal, however, we still want things to be nice. So far we're thinking of a ceremony in a park, the reception in a community hall, finger foods for the dinners and a cheap $2/glass fee to offset the booze. Unfortunately, her family's the type where people will actually feel seriously offended and hold grudges if they aren't invited, so it doesn't look like we're going to be able to cut down the guest list - its sitting at 95 people (with about 15 of them under drinking age) Anyone know what sort of costs I should be expecting? Things like tux rentals, etc. Also, any tips for cutting costs would be appreciated.