So, here is our history, we met online, fell in love, i accidentally got pregnant but we are both over-joyed. we are both highly sexual beings. and before we got pregnant we would do it about 3 times a day (maybe 4 if we had the time). so now... i am in my first trimester, and this month is the worst. I have back pain that is killing me, and i literally get sick to my stomach. i tell him all this and he has read as much as possible about the pregnancy, he knows about the morning sickness and back pain. It is also real REAL hard for me to fall asleep and to stay asleep. So, my man is hightly sexual. I used to be but pain makes that take a back seat. but it is like clock-work. At 2am... 2AM he will wake up and be highly arroused. He will wake me up and want me to 'play'. I tell him No and try to go back to sleep. No doesn't work on him. he will do it anyway, but all in all i used to love that but not now. I try to explain this to him but i just don't think he is getting it. I can hold it together, get threw the pain and let him has his fun for the next month or so. What i am really worried about is when our baby gets here. I will be exhausted and just focused on taking care of the baby. What will happen then. My biggest fear is that he will find someone else to 'play' with while i am out of commission for a minimum of 3-4 weeks. what do ya'll think about all of this? I know my man loves me to death and would never think about cheating on me.. but when there is an itch, you need to scratch it.