I'll try to keep this short. My gf and I have been dating for about 3 years. We've been living together for about 1 1/2 years. She's gonna be 29 im gonna be 26. Our relationship is like most others; ups and downs but overall a great relationship. At the beginning of last month we found out she was pregnant. I was excited, nervous, scared and everything else that comes with finding out you're having a baby. We schedule her for an appointment w/ the doctor for confirmation about the home-test. We find out she's 11 weeks pregnant. After that time we talked about things. She had a few financial concerns about us surviving with a baby. She wouldn't let me tell anyone about it because she said she wasn't sure if she wanted to keep it. I told her how I felt. I really wanted to keep the baby. I did tell her one thing that I regret saying now. I said " It's up to you, im not going to make you have a baby you don't want. All I can do is tell you how I feel". Even though I said i'd support her in her decision, I didnt realize how hard it'd be. Especially after how things pointed towards keeping it. ie) picking out names, her not talking about abortions, thinking of a bigger place to move to etc. Last Wednesday she had a follow up appoinment (at this week she's 13 weeks) that I could not attend. On Thursday she told me she made an appointment to have an abortion THIS Thursday and Friday.(two days because of how far along she is already) I was very upset. I was both angry at her and sad that we're not having a baby. I haven't even talked to her these past few days. I've slept on the living room couch since then. She just gets me soo mad. I've done so much for her since we found out she was pregnant. She'd make me go out at get her food and do things for her because she used the pregnancy as an excuse. Right now I hate being around her. Am I wrong to be feeling this? Will it go away? Another thing is; she already has a six year old son who splits time between her and the boys dad. He's a great kid who I enjoy having around. But since this happened i've started to resent him. I have feelings of not wanting to take care of him anymore. To just treat him like a total stranger kid. The last thing that gets to me is the fact that my sister just had a baby. She's two months and adorable. But when I see her It makes me very sad to think I'm not having one. She's my parents first grandchild and my parents are so in love with her. I felt as if i could have brought my parents that same happiness too. But I won't. Now I have nobody to talk to about this because nobody (except gf's sisters) knows she is pregnant. I'm too ashamed to tell anyone that MY gf would actually have an abortion. Should I be supportive of her decision even though I don't agree with it? Would I be wrong to break up w/ her because of this? cliffs: gf is 3 month pregnant and has an appointment to have an abortion. I dont want her to go through with it. Im sad and pissed at her. How should i feel?