I've been dating a girl for a little while now and I'm having a serious problem that is causing lots of concern. Recently, when we've been fooling around, I haven't been able to get hard. This is really embarrassing and I feel awful because I really care about this girl and I just want to be able to make her happy. Has this ever happened to anyone? I don't know why this has started to happen all of a sudden, but about a month ago I developed a weird sleeping problem and I sleep about an hour and a half a night. I'm really hoping the problem is because my body is overtired or something. The only other thing I can think of is nerves. This is the first girl I've ever dated and I really care about her so I'm feeling a lot of pressure to be a good lover. I know this isn't normal and I really don't need to hear "you're probably gay" or "take viagra." I'm seriously looking for help so I can fix this problem ASAP and make my girl happy. Any help is really appreciated.