but don't know how to go about it anymore, since I've been single for 5 years now. We went out like 5 months ago, then we hang out like once every six weeks. She just ended a 6 year relationship, so of course she needs to whore arround. We went out last saturday. I couldn't tell if she was done with me and thought I was cool with the friend zone, or it occured to me tonight that she may be just as afraid of me (especially since my physique has improved dramatically since...I'm definatly more attractive) as I am of her. This shit starts to get scary when you're about to turn 25, you both have careers going, and you've respected and admired each other for years. I guess its time to step up, and lay it down on her. Just step in and take control right? Right?