I'm going through some weird shit. I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and we have a good thing going. I'm very intro her and she's very into me. We didn't exchange "i love you's" yet, but I do think that I'm in love with her. I was never in love before and the feelings I get now are unlike the ones I had before. We talk about everything without yelling and cursing at eachother. I always tell her whats on my mind and how I feel and she does the same also. However, last 2-3 weeks I have become very depressed and stressed. My main worry is that I'm gonna lose this girl and I have started overanlyzing things. Our relationship is perfectly healthy yet I find worms in it. I'm also doing well in my personal life, good job, doing well in college, got a nice car and all that stuff. Can anyone explain to me then why i feel so depressed and stressed about my girlfriend? What do i need to do to chill? I talked to her about how I feel and her words are "why do you even think about this?" and "I'm not going anywhere", "I care alot about you", "we're gonna make it through this", "we're gonna be together for a long time." Yet I still think I'm gonna lose her and I overanalyze everything. She has many friends, some are males, when she talks to them or talks about them i get jealous. One guy that she used to date is now married and has a child, yet when he's around hanging out with us, I get jealous. Another guy lives over-seas and they keep in touch by e-mail in friendly fashion and this bothers the shit out of me. Please give me some pointers, I need to get myself together.