LOVE I'm taking a vow of celibacy

[Math-E]

Starting today, I've decided to give up sex until I find the right girl. I don't feel like I can sleep with just anyone anymore. I'm over the game and I'm over the need to feel wanted or to get validation. It's got to mean something and if a person isn't going to be a part of my life forever, then I don't feel that it's worth it to share this kind of intimacy with them. I want the next girl I sleep with to be the one that I marry.

 

[ForgottenSpiral]

Good luck.

 

[vipergts24]

it doesn't count if you aren't getting any anyways. Sorry

 

[Horror]

Seriously it's smart, and I think it's rewarding. It makes you not take someone in just for sex.

 

[iwishyouwerebeer]

Good luck! Will you admit it if you cave????

 

[Midgetized]

did you catch something from that stripper?

 

[bjonesy77]

Good luck! Will you admit it if you cave????

But good luck man, I hope it works out for you.

 

[damiand]

Thats huge, good luck. Keep updates!

 

[GTLifter]

2 weeks

 

[Viper]

This isn't the movies, dude.

This isn't going to speed up or slow down your likelihood of meeting a "marriage material" type of girl. Just so you know that.

You'd be better off to take a vow of celibacy for "x" amount of time than to put the immense pressure of "the next girl I sleep with will be the girl I marry" on yourself.

Or you can just stop fucking anything that moves and make it a personal requirement that you're only going to sleep with girls you care about.

What you are doing makes no logical sense and has suddenly put a huge pressure on your shoulders that isn't necessary.

 

[uwofrost]

Can you still get a good BJ or HJ? IF not your not going to last

 

[Omerta6]

or Just Raise your standards?

 

[Two toys]

lol i got so much action when i took that vow once, girls would meet me i'd tell them and they'd make it their mission to break me. but i also didnt masturbate or anything.

when i finally gave it up it was rad.

 

[Math-E]

congrats, im proud of you!

Good luck.

Thanks

Good luck! Will you admit it if you cave????

Once I make a decision on something it's pretty much set in stone

did you catch something from that stripper?

I've been thinking about doing this for awhile now. It's been a bit of an addiction. I'm giving up porn too. Now I understand why alcoholics can't have even have one little drink if they want to stay sober...

This isn't the movies, dude.

This isn't going to speed up or slow down your likelihood of meeting a "marriage material" type of girl. Just so you know that.

You'd be better off to take a vow of celibacy for "x" amount of time than to put the immense pressure of "the next girl I sleep with will be the girl I marry" on yourself.

Or you can just stop fucking anything that moves and make it a personal requirement that you're only going to sleep with girls you care about.

What you are doing makes no logical sense and has suddenly put a huge pressure on your shoulders that isn't necessary.

It's more like a spiritual cleansing for myself rather than doing it to find a girl to marry.

2 weeks

I did it all through high school so this will be a piece of cake

Can you still get a good BJ or HJ? IF not your not going to last

Yeah definitely. I'd need some way to figure if I'm sexually compatible with someone

 

[Math-E]

Thats huge, good luck. Keep updates!

hopefully there won't have to be any updates

 

[Amanda Ann]

i'm taking one too.....





























for the weekend..

 

[Math-E]

lol i got so much action when i took that vow once, girls would meet me i'd tell them and they'd make it their mission to break me. but i also didnt masturbate or anything.

when i finally gave it up it was rad.

temptation is a part of life. gotta fight the demons man

 

[Math-E]

i'm taking one too.....


for the weekend..

I don't think it's realistic for women to try and stay celibate.

 

[BrinkofSanity]

This isn't the movies, dude.

This isn't going to speed up or slow down your likelihood of meeting a "marriage material" type of girl. Just so you know that.

You'd be better off to take a vow of celibacy for "x" amount of time than to put the immense pressure of "the next girl I sleep with will be the girl I marry" on yourself.

Or you can just stop fucking anything that moves and make it a personal requirement that you're only going to sleep with girls you care about.

What you are doing makes no logical sense and has suddenly put a huge pressure on your shoulders that isn't necessary.

i could not agree w. this more.

what is it going to prove? how will you know you met the right girl? am i the only one that thinks sexual chemestry is a big part of a LTR? if you dont fuck her how will you know if she is the right one?

stop renting chick flicks and go back to doing what is natural, not what you think will make you a better man bc you saw it on some movie.

 

[ForgottenSpiral]

Personally I stick with only having sex with someone I am in a committed, loving relationship with. Works well for me.

 

[Amanda Ann]

I don't think it's realistic for women to try and stay celibate.

Longest I went was like 8 months. It sucked, but after the first few months I don't think I really cared. Never again.

 

[Math-E]

i could not agree w. this more.

what is it going to prove? how will you know you met the right girl? am i the only one that thinks sexual chemestry is a big part of a LTR? if you dont fuck her how will you know if she is the right one?

stop renting chick flicks and go back to doing what is natural, not what you think will make you a better man bc you saw it on some movie.

Well I'm not really looking to settle down with anyone right now or to date anyone. I just realized that for the past 7 months I've put so much effort into laid for whatever reason and yet not that long ago I was kind of a prude.

 

[Math-E]

Personally I stick with only having sex with someone I am in a committed, loving relationship with. Works well for me.

I always have an excuse to not be in a relationship and then I use that as an excuse to go hit on drunk girls.

 

[Math-E]

Longest I went was like 8 months. It sucked, but after the first few months I don't think I really cared. Never again.

7 months ago I was too busy with my job to notice until I realized it had been a year.

 

[Math-E]

i did this like 3 years ago, i caved in after two years, for 2 weeks. then i got my self back on track and its been going well since April. I just came in contact with someone who has very strong potential to be wifey material, so lets see how long that goes. Wish you the best man, its a great psychological test as well.

It's going to be difficult to find a good match for me. I might not ever have sex again. But I feel 100 times better when I'm free from this obsession