I'm talking to this girl from Tinder and she just said "free frawl" instead of "free for all"

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speaking of that i'm starting to think i might be accidentally cheating on someone here
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Joseph Scumsworth

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chest tat is going way better than expected.

Cut the red head loose. She was not happy.
I'm gonna have to face the music and cut this one loose too. However, got a lunch date set up today after running into an old lost connection at the gym the other day, one stopping by after work on Thursday, meeting up for lunch with another on Friday working from the office, then meeting up with pool girl Friday night.

No idea what the fuck happened but shit's poppin. :cool:
 

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Saw college professor for last time on Sunday. She fucking relives childhood trauma every time she sees me :rofl::wtf:

Please for the love of fuck everyone ITT, go to fucking therapy and get your shit together.

Glad I scheduled with a cross-fitter who is a giant nerd for Friday.
 
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Saw college professor for last time on Sunday. She fucking relives childhood trauma every time she sees me :rofl::wtf:

Please for the love of fuck everyone ITT, go to fucking therapy and get your shit together.

Glad I scheduled with a cross-fitter who is a giant nerd for Friday.
I don't remember this college professor thing.. Did you post about it in this thread before?
 

imbored

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Couple weeks ago I had a string of dates. One ended with us in the girl's car. She a freak. Never saw her again.

Few dates where it went nowhere after and was annoying as hell.

Last week I met up with this college professor. She's fun. Fantastic tits. But I remind her of her ex-stepdad :rofl::rofl: wtf dudes.

here it is. turned out it she has some real fucking trauma. met up several times. each time she'd have a random like episode where she saw the stepdad. like jesus christ.
 
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imbored

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I'm a fucking goofy geek with a mop of curly hair. definitely first time giving stepdad vibes. So I can add that to my resume I guess.

neat.
 

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i didn't phrase that very well but for a couple months now I've had a handful of "regulars" which I hate to say because it sounds douchey but IDK how else to describe it, just FWBs that I see on a near weekly basis but who I am not exclusively dating (and this has been a clearly set limit with mutual understanding)

now I'm down to two because the others decided they didn't want a fwb thing and wanted something monogamous and couldn't deal with it, which is cool, more than fair enough, wish them all the best etc.

and now of the two remaining "regulars," one has leaned back into the standard maneuvers of leaving toothbrush at the house, hair clips everywhere to "mark territory" etc. and has been dropping relatively obvious hints that she wants an actual relationship, but has come just short of saying it because I think she realizes that if she pushes it too far it'll just get broken off entirely because I'm not in the market for that at this particular moment. The other one actually took about a 2 month break from seeing me and then came back around on it and resigned herself to the fact that if it's going to happen it will and she shouldn't push it and so now we just see each other about once every week or two, have sex, maybe get dinner, and then part ways until the next time which is pretty great tbh

anyways all of that is to say that the first one that is actively pushing would probably be pretty hurt to know that I'm still sleeping with other people even though I know that she has to know that because even though I haven't directly said that, we have had the conversation about not being exclusive on at least two occasions in the relatively recent past. So even though I'm not technically doing anything wrong, I still feel kinda bad because it almost feels like I'm taking advantage of the fact that she wants more but is scared to push it and blow it up entirely so she's in this no mans land. No easy fix tbh
 

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I think the girl I went on a date with last weekend is ghosting me. Haven't heard from her in a couple days and she's usually a reliable texter. :o

Trying to get something set up this weekend with a Vietnamese chick from Newport I've been talking to. Another girl from Long Beach gave me her number so we could get together, but I'm not really feeling that one.
 

emanuel

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i didn't phrase that very well but for a couple months now I've had a handful of "regulars" which I hate to say because it sounds douchey but IDK how else to describe it, just FWBs that I see on a near weekly basis but who I am not exclusively dating (and this has been a clearly set limit with mutual understanding)

now I'm down to two because the others decided they didn't want a fwb thing and wanted something monogamous and couldn't deal with it, which is cool, more than fair enough, wish them all the best etc.

and now of the two remaining "regulars," one has leaned back into the standard maneuvers of leaving toothbrush at the house, hair clips everywhere to "mark territory" etc. and has been dropping relatively obvious hints that she wants an actual relationship, but has come just short of saying it because I think she realizes that if she pushes it too far it'll just get broken off entirely because I'm not in the market for that at this particular moment. The other one actually took about a 2 month break from seeing me and then came back around on it and resigned herself to the fact that if it's going to happen it will and she shouldn't push it and so now we just see each other about once every week or two, have sex, maybe get dinner, and then part ways until the next time which is pretty great tbh

anyways all of that is to say that the first one that is actively pushing would probably be pretty hurt to know that I'm still sleeping with other people even though I know that she has to know that because even though I haven't directly said that, we have had the conversation about not being exclusive on at least two occasions in the relatively recent past. So even though I'm not technically doing anything wrong, I still feel kinda bad because it almost feels like I'm taking advantage of the fact that she wants more but is scared to push it and blow it up entirely so she's in this no mans land. No easy fix tbh
The easy fix is you have a conversation with her about her expectations
 

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Saw college professor for last time on Sunday. She fucking relives childhood trauma every time she sees me :rofl::wtf:

Please for the love of fuck everyone ITT, go to fucking therapy and get your shit together.

Glad I scheduled with a cross-fitter who is a giant nerd for Friday.
Is her name Jennifer and is she a Urology assistant?
 
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