I was reading the conversation thread and realized that I'm pretty comfortable in conversation, but I really have no idea how to flirt. When a girl does try to flirt with me I used not not even realize it until later, and now I can recognize it but I still don't know what to do. I can't even think of an analytical definition of flirting. I'm sure some of you are doing the face at this point, but that's just how I know I understand (or don't) something. I've seen things like "tease her a little bit," but I'm not sure how do that with a girl that I don't already have rapport with. How can I pick something to tease her about out of the blue? Making a joke about her fashion seems like a good way to trainwreck a conversation. I feel kind of retarded because of this this, but it just doesn't come naturally to me like it does for most guys it seems. Any help here?