FRK in need of some new sexual ideas

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by ladiik3, Apr 28, 2007.

  1. ladiik3

    ladiik3 New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    238
    Likes Received:
    0
    Ok so me and my bf have been together for about 2 years and we have done many things more than I thought we would've done. We have gone through many places and positions
    But I want to try something new with him or just surprise him somehow. Anything anal is out of the question we have already agreed that neither of us want to go there

    If you have any ideas..PLEASE tell thanks
     
  2. Epicman

    Epicman Active Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2001
    Messages:
    38,742
    Likes Received:
    9
    Location:
    Europe
    I would think it would be best if the two of you sat down and discussed each other's fantasies. From there you can try and act them out.

    Everybody has different things they enjoy. Something I enjoy others might not and vice versa.
     
  3. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2004
    Messages:
    10,979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    behind that fence over there
    you could also try searching the internet for some new ideas. the net is full of sexual literature and fetish-related sites that could give you two ideas.
     
  4. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 27, 2004
    Messages:
    3,903
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Vancouver
    Isn't that what she's doing by posting here?? lol
     
  5. Epicman

    Epicman Active Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2001
    Messages:
    38,742
    Likes Received:
    9
    Location:
    Europe
    :mamoru:
     
  6. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2004
    Messages:
    10,979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    behind that fence over there
    well places like this aren't EXACTLY what I meant. this isn't exactly a porn or fetish site.
     
  7. wordsXandXguns

    wordsXandXguns OT Homecoming

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Messages:
    10
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Stafford Springs, CT
    Wow. The list that could be compiled.
    I'd start off with power play of some sort.
    Take a walk through a sex toy shop. The gf and I always get new ideas from there.
    Here is a link to a looong checklist of bdsm/fetish/etc ideas.
     
  8. HouseLing

    HouseLing When masturbations lost its fun you'r fucking lazy

    Joined:
    Feb 9, 2002
    Messages:
    9,330
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    SoCal
    thats always a fun trip :bigthumb:
     
  9. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2004
    Messages:
    10,979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    behind that fence over there
    this is the sorta thing I was talking about. :bigthumb:
     
  10. ladiik3

    ladiik3 New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    238
    Likes Received:
    0
    I guess I could talk to him about it but I was looking foward to surprising him with something new
     
  11. wordsXandXguns

    wordsXandXguns OT Homecoming

    Joined:
    Nov 22, 2006
    Messages:
    10
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Stafford Springs, CT
    Glad to be of service :thumbs up:
     
  12. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

    Joined:
    Dec 10, 2001
    Messages:
    52,552
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Miramar, FL
    Surprising people with something new doesn't always play out as positively as you may like. I say talk out your fantasies for things you like to try inthe future, and then later on Try them.
     
  13. Epicman

    Epicman Active Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2001
    Messages:
    38,742
    Likes Received:
    9
    Location:
    Europe
    :werd: Everybody has such varying likes when it comes to sex. Plus, if you guys talk about your fantasies then you have things to pick from to surprise him with and you don't have to worry that he won't like it.
     
  14. Sandoz

    Sandoz New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 20, 2006
    Messages:
    628
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Europe
    :werd:

    Sometimes surprises are NOT what the other person expects!
     
  15. DarkAngel19

    DarkAngel19 New Member

    Joined:
    Jan 16, 2007
    Messages:
    641
    Likes Received:
    0
    Hey, I'm sorta in the same situation, and I try to spice things up with my SO as much as possible. We did a little with tying up a while ago, that was awesome. I came upstairs and he was sitting on the bed with this cool-looking rope, he tied me up with all these knots and then we proceeded to have amazing sex. I also went down on him in the middle of a park yesterday with a hat on so my visor hid his junk, and it was so spontaneous we both loved it:)

    We also experiment with a lot of sex toys, from nipple rings to cock rings to different lubes and vibrators. I got a vibrating cock ring that has a cyberskin part that comes up the front and hits my clit, it's wonderful.

    Tried all that?

    If yes, then I would agree with these folks and say that internet will be your best bet. If you want to surprise him, make SURE you know what he wants. It can blow up in your face, believe me:)

    And are you sure no anal? Really? Most people would agree that you are closing a door that might lead to awesome experiences...

    Good luck!

    DA
     
  16. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2004
    Messages:
    10,979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    behind that fence over there
  17. ladiik3

    ladiik3 New Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Messages:
    238
    Likes Received:
    0
    Thanks a lot darkangel
    I've done most of wat u said ill prolly see wat I find in the sex stores

    About anal sometimes I want to try it but the odeas that go thru my head wen I think about it is kinda weird....if I could get someone that knew wat they were doin then mayb I would try it but he really isn't comfortable about anal so I don't want to force him to do it
     
  18. Sandoz

    Sandoz New Member

    Joined:
    Nov 20, 2006
    Messages:
    628
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Europe
    Aren't we all? :mamoru:
     
  19. Epicman

    Epicman Active Member

    Joined:
    Jul 2, 2001
    Messages:
    38,742
    Likes Received:
    9
    Location:
    Europe

    I'm sure most people have their reservations about anal at first. Just slowly work on it.
     
  20. gabacho numero uno

    gabacho numero uno New Member

    Joined:
    Oct 29, 2004
    Messages:
    10,979
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    behind that fence over there
    Yes indeed. :bigthumb:
     

Share This Page