OK. So this is the first girlfriend I've actually ever had. She's studying in Paris right now, but will be back in three weeks. I've had a few conversations with her about trimming/shaving/etc, and she says it doesn't bother her, but she thinks it would look nice if I trimmed (but NOT shaved). Basically I want to suprise her by trimming, but I don't know what that entails. How short do you normally trim, what do you trim, what do you use, etc. I guess I could just take hair clippers and go at it, but I'd like some experienced advice. I'm really concerned with what a properly trimmed area should look like. In pornos, the guys all are completely shaven, so I don't have a clue what a "trimmed" look is. One more question. I realize it might still itch, even without shaving, but how long does that usually last? I'll deal with the initial itching, no problem, but i'd like to feel comfortable down there once she's back, so I'd like to plan accordingly. Thanks for all advice.