So you'll probably just tell me I'm reading too much into this but I figured it could make for some fun discussion regardless. Same girl that I've been hanging out with a lot recently (known her for about 6 years, could've dated her when we first met, and she said that herself, but I had a girlfriend at the time and now she says we "know each other too well and she's afraid she'd lose me if we dated and broke up"), anyway, we were hanging out at the bar and an older gentleman asked if we were a couple to which she replied "Not really." I kind of thought that should be a yes or no question, so I was curious how she'd respond to it. And for clarification it wasn't just to keep this guy from hitting on her, he was like 60+ and those weren't his intentions at all. Basically, just wondering why she'd respond that way after saying she "can't date me." Still weighing the options possibly? Couple side notes that probably aren't of importance but whatever, I know the vag likes details. I'm a smoker and I know she despises it. She actually told me that all she wanted for Christmas from me was for me to quit smoking. I half-think that this could be one of the reasons she's hesitating to date me. Other than that, who knows.