Bit of background. About a year ago, I had a group of about 10 friends.. I walked away from all of them one day after a he said/she said bullshit episode about me and a gf of the time. I ask very little of my friends but I expect loyalty and i expect silence about my personal life to other people. I personally stick to those rules so I think its possible to do so. Slow process but 6 mnths ago I came up with a new group of friends. I thought they were better being older and hopefully more mature. As each person proved less trust worthy I would ignore them. Basically happened to 2/8 people. Friday night we went out and I saw no loyalty- as in girls I said i was interested in; and I saw no ability to keep their mouthes shut. I should have left them at the party but I wouldnt leave 1 friend in perticular behind, she was too drunk. I took her home. So the next day I start getting phone calls of "I heard you took this girl home..." and basically before I knew it, my personal life was public knowledge. I made the decision to discuss it and everyone see's it as non issue. I ended the conversation of walking away from them and as far as I am concerned I'm done! This leaves me thinking I will die uphappy and never keep my friends. I really dont expect much from people but honestly I get even less in return. When I think thats about as shitty as a friend can be, I get a reminder! So is that too much to expect ? Anyone have any insite? Im pretty lost right now!