is it wrong to b attracted to older women. im 20 and i find myself checkin out women in the late 30's or early 40's. like today for instance. i seen this women walkin towards me in a store and she looked older. she wasnt the "HOTTEST" but very cute to me for some reason. we made eye contact and i smiled she smiled back but like seriously....how can i get an older women like that? i always check for rings and i have found some women without a wedding ring but would right if i approached them...and what would be the best way to?