Ive been dating my girlfriend for 4 months, and its the most serious relationship ive been in. We rarely fight, it doesn't take much to make us happy when we are with each other, and we are extremely comfortable around each other. However, it seems recently that she is expecting to much. I try to do everything for her, i take her to dinner to her favorite restaurant every friday, which is 20 dollars a plate, i pay for everything, i take her everywhere, i schedule my week around her, ive bought 200 dollar pair of jeans because she wanted me to and i wanted to make her happy (im whipped, you can say it), and when i asked her out i tried to do it in a cute way, when i asked her to formal dances ive tried to do it in a cute way. When she thought she was pregnant i bought her tests and i was there every step of the way. Ive tried to do everything.
However, this past week i told her that i told the person that can understand me the most that she may have been pregnant, and she freaked out. I reminded her that she told 5 people, 4 of which she isnt close friends with, and she told me that it was different because i told a girl. So, that went over well.
A day after her best friend told me that my girlfriend gets a little annoyed because i dont do everything perfectly or say the right things. For example, she was sick this past week. Every day i went to her house and watched shitty chick flicks and laid with her until she fell asleep, but she got mad at me because i didnt bring her flowers. Also, periodically ill write her notes about how much i love her and how much she means to me.
And most recently, she wanted me to do a facial with her (not sexual). I told her maybe, and i was obviously apprehensive about doing it. However, she made the appointment for thursday. Today i told her that i didnt want to do it, and that id rather just take her out to eat. She flipped shit at this point saying that she looked froward to it, and the she doesnt know why i would do it, and that it was a jerk move, and that it surprised her (i rarely say no).
And i really do love her, she was my first love. Our history has been a bit rocky throughout high school (we dated freshmen year, broke up, hated eachother until jr year, and went back out).
So, i this her asking for to much? Or is this me being a shitty boyfriend?
However, this past week i told her that i told the person that can understand me the most that she may have been pregnant, and she freaked out. I reminded her that she told 5 people, 4 of which she isnt close friends with, and she told me that it was different because i told a girl. So, that went over well.
A day after her best friend told me that my girlfriend gets a little annoyed because i dont do everything perfectly or say the right things. For example, she was sick this past week. Every day i went to her house and watched shitty chick flicks and laid with her until she fell asleep, but she got mad at me because i didnt bring her flowers. Also, periodically ill write her notes about how much i love her and how much she means to me.
And most recently, she wanted me to do a facial with her (not sexual). I told her maybe, and i was obviously apprehensive about doing it. However, she made the appointment for thursday. Today i told her that i didnt want to do it, and that id rather just take her out to eat. She flipped shit at this point saying that she looked froward to it, and the she doesnt know why i would do it, and that it was a jerk move, and that it surprised her (i rarely say no).
And i really do love her, she was my first love. Our history has been a bit rocky throughout high school (we dated freshmen year, broke up, hated eachother until jr year, and went back out).
So, i this her asking for to much? Or is this me being a shitty boyfriend?
and she's getting away with it. 
That's what I did when I was younger. 