Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by NightyNight, Dec 27, 2007.
or regular too, just curious.
the answer is going to be different for everybody. some will be turned off, some will be indifferent, and other will think it's badass.
Kinda turns me off I think I would rather not know about it, and certainly not be present when he was doing it. Different strokes for different folks, though. Variety makes the world go 'round.
When I was a pothead, I generally dated other smokers. I haven't really smoked in a few years now, and I think it would be a turn off unless I was REALLY sure he had his shit together otherwise
It mostly depends on whether they smoke. I so I'm not going to have a problem with a guy that does. I don't smoke cigs though so it is a turn off if a guy does.
Turn off. People who smoke pot regularly generally have no ambition and are losers.
Not every girl is the same. Most that I've met loathe it. Me? Most of my friends smoke pot as well as myself from time to time. So no, it doesn't bother me. Cigarettes though I won't stand for.
Oh please. You've never met my friends. The one who does extremely well at an architecture firm making more than most couples combined. Or the one who just graduated with his degree in chemical engineering...Oh yeah, all people who smoke pot are lazy losers
That's why I used the word generally.
All kinds of smoking are a turn off for me.
Nothing kills my desire for a hot woman faster than seeing her smoke a cigarette. I'm not kissing an ashtray.
I'm sure there are both men and women out there who are fine with it, and men an women who feel the same way I do.
A poll might have been more illuminating.
i used to be a big stoner, and my boyfriend at the time was too. it sucked because eventually that was the central theme to anything we ever did, it got boring. my current bf and i are both now occasional smokers (me slightly more than him) and i like it that way. i couldn't date a hardcore stoner again. i think that the stereotypical "stoner" image is pretty unattractive.
every pothead thinks they're the exception to the rule
no thanks, i'll pass. i agree with kiri. been there, done that.
i can't really stand cigs. if i really like a guy i can't say cigs have always been a deal breaker, but it's definitely a huge factor of the attraction side. weed usually doesn't bother me, i do it from time to time, and my bf pretty much makes it a daily habit. i only have a problem if a guy acts really differently when he's stoned vs. sober. my bf still treats me/other people the same, and stays relatively "normal" so i don't pay much attention to it. also if the guy doesn't understand the consequences of what he does then he's too wrapped up into it, and i need to get out of that relationship (ie: carrying it around with him in his car, smoking anywhere but in the house, getting arrested for it, etc)
yea unless they smoke then it still isnt a turn on
My girl thinks that someone who smokes on a regular/daily basis is a HUGE turn off.
Guys that smoke once in a great while she is mostly indifferent on.
As for smoking, she smokes a bit (one cig a day... sometimes two) and thinks a guy that smokes cig's is a turn on as long as they don't run through a pack a day or something.
I've been smoking one to five cigs a week for about six or seven years now, how big of a turn off is that to guys?
I won't date a female who smokes cigs, or one who smokes pot even semi-frequently.
I will not date someone who smokes pot. Absolutely not.
big turn off.
i wont date a girl who smokes.
turned off completely by both pot and cigs. make me
A user and a non user will have a hard time being togather. A pothead will not work with anything but a pothead. At least long term.
Really, look at it like alcohol. Because it is almost the same.
for me it's a disqualifier for anything serious and long term. If it were a one night stand, I'd just ask you not to smoke while I was there.
If you said you were in the process of quitting, or had quit, then you'd be fine.
I just think it's gross.
Ill excuse myself the moment a girl lights up. its disgusting smelling/tasting, and a bit trashy.
Why is it trashy?