Heres the situation: i have spend 7 weeks planning a trip away with 9 of our friends.I have ben so stressed out planning the details of this trip that ive become so stressed out. My Significant Other (SO) is not there for me as a shoulder to lean on throughout the planning process. whenever i ask my SO for help, i get "do it yourself, i dont care" attitude. so yesterday, i ask him for advice and again i get shut down. i go to my guy friend for help instead. My SO gets mad at me for turning to my friend, so he says hes not coming on the trip anymore. Quesiton: should i just go wihtout my SO, since i spent so much time planning the trip? was i in the wrong for turning to my friend for help?