One good friend of mine growing up has always been over weight. I worry about her because I know that in 10 years she could be either dead or have some problems that will never go away. I go to the gym 2-3 times a week and have kinda bugged her to join me so I can have a work out partner. I almost want to come out and say, "hey I'm worried about your weight because it could really screw your life up later" but i don't know how to say it the right way. Experience in this situation?