Maybe I'm too young to fully understand love, but lately the feelings I've been getting are INCREDIBLE. I know only I can be the judge whether im in love or not, but last summer I fell in love with this amazing girl who has changed a lot and recentely decided to see other people (6mo). Still in love with her, i couldn't just let my feelings go. This new girl falls in my lap soon after and is even more amazing and I'm falling for her very very hard (though I don't think I truely love her yet because I'm having doubts) Is it selfish of me to find Love so easily and not want it? I know you must all be asking, who in hell would not want love.. but yes, after falling in love with more than one person at a time, emotion is tearing me up inside! I can't be intimately in love with them all and sometimes I feel like a selfish bastard that I'm taking advantage of such a powerful emotion. My romantic side really gets the best of me. I don't know how to explain it, but I'm a true romantic and I would consider love and longterm emotion in a much more important category than sex alone. Girls who get to know me die for that quality and no matter how much I've always wanted women, I now just want to be single! I hope someone out there understands what I'm feeling. I just have a feeling this is God's way of teaching me a lesson. I once took advantage of love and now I'm overwhelmed to the max. Love has come my way so much, that there's just so much to think about and so many things to do! cliffs: Love keeps finding me, I feel selfish for wanting to let go, I always seem to fall in love with women in relationships that are complicated (distance, etc). We end up falling so hard for each other, it's impossible to give up our feelings. Am I a prick for not preventing them at first? I would never give up love for anything, but I'm overwhelmed as hell.