As some of you have read i am separated from the wife, more than likely and much to my dismay things are headed for a divorce so of course im trying to cope with that, in very different ways. Enter the ex-ex: She is back in town and we are trying to set something up to catch up on old times. We didnt really have a bad slpit, we were just trying to grow up too fast and we weren't ready for it, but it was a split nonetheless. Today she messaged me and weve been txt messaging all day, I offered her drinks, dinner and a good chat! She willingly and quickly accepted as she is going through some of the same shit I am going through and well we are very comfortable with each otehr... both different stories but still all the same... she said it would be lots of fun to see me again. I want to meet up with her but Im afraid if I do, the fact that Im lonely will take the best of me and I'd end up ruining what could be the rekindling of a good friendship. the main problem is that we have been known to be weak with each other before (before I was married). How can I deal with this? shold I just say fuck it and see where it goes? i miss the companionship of a woman, and shes on the same boat... - Should I cancel? (That would be a bitch move lol and after all I suggested we go out for dinner and drinks) - Should I just go and have the good time I think I will? let things be for now? Its been about 7 yrs since I ever met up with anyone without the wife? i cant even remember how to deal with this kind of situations lol Advice on what would be the best route to take? thanks in advance!