So a little background--my girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now, but we are working at different sides of the state for the summer (about 1 1/2 more months). She's working at Dow Chemical and is having a good time. She works with some fairly young people who I've met and they all seem pretty cool. So heres the thing, we had originally planned on seeing eachother every weekend, but now she is doing a lot of things with her friends up there. So we talked about it and basically she said that she doesn't want to miss out on this opportunity for the summer, but at the same time doesn't want to lose me. She was really serious and said, "I love you so much and can actually see myself marrying you in the future, but for now I kind of want to be less serious and not have to think that I have to call you all the time and stuff like that." Now personally, I wouldn't mind talking to her everyday and seeing her every weekend, but I can respect her point of view. She said shes not looking to find another guy at all and would never cheat on me or do anything to ruin our relationship (and if I did, she would cut my dick off), but I guess she just wants to keep things relaxed over the summer and be back to normal when we get back to school. I can understand, but I just want some opinions on this... PS... I am 22 and she is 21.