27 yr old female here whose 25 yr old male boyfriend broke up with- TWICE. The 1st time it was a shock and he ended up calling me a couple of days later. We got back together within days. Before we got back together i told him that the random business of dumping me and wanting me back is a definite no- no. Fast forward a yr. later & he dumps me again. Day after he dumped me he sent me a text saying that "He'll always love me and doesn't want me out of his life". A day after that confusing text, i called him and we agreed to meet up & talk. Over dinner we talked about EVERYTHING. Thing is, when we were together we wouldn't really talk, which is what brought us to the present situation. Anyhow, after the dinner he started texting me like normal as if we never broke up. Quickly i put an end to it b/c we both agreed that if we wanted to make it work again we needed to get to know each other. Plus i didn't want to be the stupid girl that is kinda with someone. So i put an end to the texting by telling him over the phone that i needed my space b/c i was still severly hurt over the 2nd break-up. I told him that i would contact him in a month, just so i can use the month to spend time with myself and reflect & forgive. Is this stupid?