I just found out tonight that my grandpa had some minor surgery on his back. I was never told about this. I call them to see if they will be home for me to visit, they usually have something going on already that conflicts with it. So I don't see them that much. It just seems like ever since my dad died, they seem to not want to communicate with me. I call them, but it's usually just quick "How are you doing?" type things. I have seriously only seen them two or three times since my dad passed away in July. I just miss my dad and I miss my grandparents. It seems like my brother and sister see them much more often than me. And even if it's to call, they talk with them more. Maybe it's just in my head, but there has to be some kind of change with them because I saw them at least twice a month before. The next foreseeable time I will see them is on Thanksgiving, which is a month away. I just want to know why the hell this is.