SRS It's been 9 months since the love of my life broke my heart.

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  1. -Rico-

    -Rico- OT Supporter

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    And I still miss her and cry for her like she just left me yesterday.

    Is this normal?

    I know time heals all wounds and all but my symptoms haven't shown any improvement.
     
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    no dude, 9 months later is not normal...
     
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    Have you been going out and doing things? Sometimes its best to distract yourself some... at least in my experience.
     
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    ^if so, then

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  5. -Rico-

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    Yes, during those 9 months I have taken up tennis, made new friends, tried seeing other girls, took up some new hobbies.

    But at the end of the day, no matter how busy I kept myself, all the heartache just catches up to me.
     
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    Time to realize shit won't change. She's moved on and if you don't you'll be miserable forever.
     
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    If it where that easy, I would've done it 9 months ago.
     
  8. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Then go see a counselor. It isn't supposed to be this hard so if it is then obviously you need help.
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    I'm pretty sure therapy does not have a sexual identity.
     
  10. GTLifter

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    You're a dude right? I think you need to go see an Endocrinologist and get your hormone levels checked becasue you're acting like a 14yr old girl. I'd do that along with some therapy.
     
  11. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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  12. Short Bus

    Short Bus Beep beep!

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    Nine months? Damn dude, I thought I was slow to recover...
     
  13. Justin Niggalake

    Justin Niggalake New Member

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    :werd:

    how old are you?
     
  14. limniscate

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    Nine months and still crying? That's definitely not normal.
     
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    I try man.

    But I can't seem to be able to get her out of my head no matter how occupied i keep it.
     
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    She was my very first girlfriend.
     
  17. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    Great. Now go get your very first therapist.
     
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    When you love someone, you NEVER stop loving them. You just learn to live without them.
     
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    your first gf and you cant get over her after 9 months?

    i got over my first wife after being w. her for 6 yrs after 3-4 months.

    you need a therapist. and thats coming from someone that thinks therapy is a bunch of bs and that if you cant deal w. your own issues you're a pussy.
     
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    I was 14yrs old. I didn't know what love was much less know what I had lost.

    After she came back into my life after 12yrs. I now know what I felt for her was true love. And when she left me again, I discovered the true meaning of a broken heart.
     
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    Yes, that's where it got a hell of a lot complicated.

    She was giving me a lot of hope that she was going to divorce her husband and be with me.

    But when things got too hard she told me to move on and cut all communication with me.
     
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    :rofl:

    srsly dude...either get help or stfu and stop posting this bullshit...
     
  24. Justin Niggalake

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    sorry but that sounds like 'yo bad'
    you need help man... and i'm not trying to sound facetious
     
  25. Short Bus

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    WHAT???

    Dude... wtf. Nine months to get over somebody you weren't really in a relationship with? Seriously go talk to somebody.
     

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