So this guy and I have been seeing each other for about 7 months talked about what we had. At first I asked if we were just friends with benefits, but he cancelled that saying that it would imply of both of us seeing more than one person, which we weren't. So as we wondered I just said I'd call it a "thing" unless either of us decided what it was. I didn't ask if he wanted it to be a relationship...it seemed intimidating to ask it at the time. So anybody know what this might be?