Super late to the thread but just found it and basically getting nothing done at work now as I read through it. Love the attitude you have; I'd like to think I'd have the same mindset if I were in your situation. Best of luck to you.
Wow man, I know it's been said multiple times already, but your attitude is incredible and awe-inspiring. Just reading the thread, I can't help but wonder if this were to happen to me, I'd hope I could have a quarter of the positive attitude you've projected ITT.
Best of luck dude. I hope you and your wife absolutely enjoy and cherish the time you have left. Funny thing is, we should all live by that creed, but we all get too caught up in life until something like this hits us or someone we love.