I took the light out of my son's eyes when I told him his mother and I were getting divorced. It led directly to his drug use, ruined me financially and set things in motion that still reverberate through the lives of myself and my two sons. You were once infatuated with your wife, and she with you. Psychiatrists are always saying "happiness is a choice." So is love. Having said that, though, if you can't fix your marriage and you can't fix how you each feel about the other, you both owe it to your son and each other to treat each other with respect and kindness. Your son didn't choose his parents, but he needs them both.ooof. I'm stuck between third & fourth, and have a small son. what do?
edit: sorry... I think I was preaching to myself.