My girlfriend and I had been going out for about 1.5 years. We had decided about half way through that we should break up for college. So we had a final day together on friday. We went shopping and went out to a very nice dinner. It was really hard to leave her than night. In any case, I feel wierd. Because we're very much still in love with eachother, yet we know it's not really realistic to stay together during college. But I'm not really sure what I should do. I don't want to hold on to our relationship because I'm sure it'll end up dissapointing. However, I don't really want to give up because I'll feel like I'm giving up on something really special we had. Is there a happy medium between the two?