I'm a freshmen in college and I've been dating this girl on and off for over a year. We started out great like all relationships do but it eventually got to the point we were constantly bickering. She was alos manipulative and used sex to try to force commitment on me...she also almost got together with my best friend (they're both at fault, I'll never forgive him about that either). Anyway, this has been a LONG time coming, and I know I'm better off w/o her, but still at this point I'm really sad about it. I dunno...I guess I'm scared I will never find 'love' again? Even though I know I will, it's just hard to tell myself that. I am also scared that over Christmas break she's going to call me up to talk and I'm not going to be strong enough to stay away. How hard was it for you guys to get over your first, and any advice to keep from answering her calls?