She told me about it over lunch today. About how she has put up with everything for 24 years. She stayed with my dad just to make sure a divorce didnt hurt me, or my sister. But now, since we are grown she wants to leave my dad. I wasnt really surprised by the news because my dad is very distant, but i am sad because my family is going to be torn apart. she told me she's been planning this for a year or so now. And she went back to college to become a nurse so she can look after herself financially. she told me she plans on telling my dad in July or August when she's done with school. i want her to be happy, and neither her, nor my dad are happy right now. those that have had parents go through divorces, what should i expect in the comming months? btw i'm 20, and still live at home for college.