So, I have this friend who is a female. We've been really good friends for about 4 almost 5 years now. I used to live right down the street from her, but I moved out of state 2 years ago. Since I moved away, it seems as if we've actually become better friends than we were when we lived close to each other. It's off and on, but sometimes we'll talk on the phone at least 10 times a week, but other times only once or twice a week. I have had feelings for her pretty much since I've known her but I don't think she does. We have gotten drunk a few times and messed around but it never meant anything and a few times she'd sober up while we were messing around and stop us from doing anything more. Here's the tricky part. We're friends on MySpace and we're each other #1 friend. (If you know what Top 8 is, you know what a privilidge it is to be someone's #1, and if you don't know what Top 8 is, basically I'm her favorite person in the world) Aside from being each other's #1, she also leaves me comments that leave me wondering if she really has feelings for me AT ALL. When I bring the subject up subtely, she always says "I can't like you, it'd be weird. You're too good of a friend" or something around those lines. But then she'll leave messages on my MySpace that makes me think differently! It drives me nuts. Let me show a few examples of the comments she'll leave me on MySpace: - Apr 6 2007 1:05A BUT WE ARE STILL GREAT FRIENDS!! we'll be in like.....well something... ONCE AGIAN!! just u wait kid :] - Mar 30 2007 8:57P I do very much love this man!! :] Feb 10, 2007 9:00 PM just for u my love :] Jan 31, 2007 11:39 PM If only u knew the love i have for u. It makes me blue.. when i think how much i miss u. But thats where i end.. cuz thats just when, i realize im dumb.. And should have never begun :] So i suck at poetry. Sue Me and finally, she left me this comment a few days ago that literally just killed me. Cliffs: Can a friend of the opposite sex (who are both attractive and/or attracted to each other) keep it to JUST friends forever? I want to try a relationship with her, but when I bring it up even subtley she says it would be too weird.