I am working 2 jobs: I am a cashier at a restaurant making shitty money with shitty hours, and a personal assistant for a rich dude for $15 an hour (only 15 hours a week) which still isn't that great of money.. My dad wants me to come up with $ 5000 by the end of the summer for school which means that I am currently not making anywhere close to what I need to be making, and the economy sucks. Too make things more fantastic, I recently got a boyfriend.. he just graduated, and his parents give him everything he needs.. he spends all the money he earns on stuff he wants. He graduated a month ago and he hasn't been searching for a job because his dad basically can hook him up with a job as soon as he moves back home in 2 weeks. SO... my boyfriend basically sits around and either plays video games, or sells stuff on Ebay all day, and he eats out for every meal. In addition to this, he usually sleeps in anywhere from 12- 4 pm every day. I'm really starting to get nauseated by his lifestyle especially because I have to work my ass off in order to get by. There are a lot of really good things about him: he and I spend a lot of time with each other and we never get bored of each other. We both love the same kind of music, and we both place a really high value on intellectualism. I really enjoy having deep conversations every once in a while, but I also have to have comedy in my life... and I think that is one thing he is seriously lacking.. For example, we went to see "The Hangover" and afterwards all he could comment about was the fact that it "encourages drinking and driving" and how movies like these ultimately lead to the destruction of values in our society. He laughed maybe 1 or 2 times throughout the movie.... That is only one example...I am pretty easily amused and I rarely find myself laughing at any jokes he may attempt to make. It makes me really sad. The thing I do really like about him is his passion for adventure.. he goes camping and is very openminded about trying new sometimes-risky things.. He and I plan to go sky diving soon and camping in the desert. Also, he loves to travel, and this is something that is really important to me.. I'm only 20 years old and I am definitely not looking to get married or anything any time soon so this isn't like something that is seriously important, but... I guess I'm just frustrated about a lot of possibly really small things.. I don't know if I just set my standards wayy to high or if I have legitimate concerns. Maybe you guys could help me out..