Alright so let me explain sorta what happened... I was going to ask this girl out, she had a pretty good friend and I made sure they were never dating ( asked tons of people ) well somehow he found out I was going to be asking her out, and decided to ask her out right before me right in front of my face. That night we sorta talked back and forth all 3 of us, ended up she was going to have to choose. Next day I decided to say forget it not going to put her through the decision making told her to go with this other guy. ---------------- Soo I respect the fact that I told her to go with this guy, but I still really like her and she still really likes me ( I tried just ignoring her all this week, she keeps doing little things that sorta tip me off... ) This guy she is with now is younger, more immature and I guess in my views they are just friends but he felt he wouldn't be if he didn't beat me to asking her out. I guess my question is how do I get about getting her to switch sides if that isn't to devilish? I'm over her to a point but still really wish sometimes I wouldn't have played the nice guy that night.