I'm going to lay it out, any feedback would be nice: 1. I don't have any concerns by about "drinking too much", I am concerned by having more than I plan to have. 2. I find it hard to accept others support as I tend to get irritated if they get critical. Eg: I'll say that I will only have 2 beers in a given night, but then drink 4 and my wife will remind me about what I said be then I tend to get irritated at the (percived) criticism. 3. I am thinking about imposing a "glass ceiling" but I can see in the back of my mind the conflict already starting. I guess the point is I have trouble limiting myself sometimes, and usually when I am stressed. I can't tell what is worse, drinking or stress.