I just had a long, ugly, emotional argument with the girlfriend (it had to be bad for even ME to get emotional). One of the things she was upset about was how I don't show her "enough affection". I'm not a very affectionate person by nature, but I'd like to at least compromise somewhat... But I really don't know how. So what is it you ladies like that really makes you feel good? My way of showing affection has been occasional hugging/kissing, but I'm more of a "pick on her/tickle her to show affection" kinda guy. She apparently doesn't see the affection in that. I love her and everything, I've just never been any good at this kind of thing.