Last night my girlfriend of 13 months told me she's bored with our sex life...

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  1. drpepperbandit

    drpepperbandit "You can't find the right answer if you ask the wr

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    we've been together since December 2006, lived together since march of 2007.


    Came out of nowhere, she just said she was bored with our sex life. We usually have sex once or twice a day. Sometimes we get to every other day if we're busy or get in a small fight
     
  2. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    So, spice it up.

    Consider yourself lucky that she actually told you this instead of going out and finding another guy.
     
  3. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    so make her do some freaky shit
    telll her to start stripping. ask to make a porn. watch porn together. try using toys. buy a sex swing. something.
     
  4. willdawg69

    willdawg69 Guest

    Well if you really care about her you need to sit down and talk about this again. She obvisouly cares about you and is comfortable with you for her to tell you. This is a make or break the relationship point. You should find out what she really wants and come through with it. If she won't open up to you then let us know and we can start listing some ideas for you. Be proactive or move over because jody will on his way in!
     
  5. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    i don't have anything to contribute right now, but your av is awesome.
     
  6. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's what happens when you have sex more than once a freaking day. Spice it up.
     
  7. kiri

    kiri New Member

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    IS your sex life boring? is it the same every time? do you do anything freaky?
     
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    Dude take control. Throw her around. Show her you arent a piece of meat she can find in a bar and that you have some touch. Use candles I'm sure at this point if shes desperate or loves you enough to stay with her she will take almost any act you choose to do as you trying. Make her beg for you shit.
     
  9. NCS

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    yeah. is she going to tell you what she wants? doesnt sound like it. so go OK, great time to be more open with eachother about our kinks, and figure out what you havent done yet that you'd like to do.
     
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    My first thought, there. Oversexed.

    now you have to start doing fucked up shit
     
  11. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    Make an insane pact not to have sex for like a week. And then do everything up TO sex, without actually fucking until the week is up.

    I bet that gets you both so crazy that by the end of the week you'll be tearing each other apart.
     
  12. drpepperbandit

    drpepperbandit "You can't find the right answer if you ask the wr

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    we've mixted it up before though: handcuffs, blindfolds, outside, in the car, with candles, lingerie, picture taking...

    I guess ill just have to be forceful and suprise her more often in random places..
     
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    did you ask her what she finds boring about it?
     
  14. drpepperbandit

    drpepperbandit "You can't find the right answer if you ask the wr

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    she mentioned we always do it right before bed, maybe she's unhappy that its "just" something we do before bed. And I always give her a good time, its not like I just get my nut off and roll over and pass out..
     
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    Do it right after you come home from work sometime, or maybe wake her up @ 3am for one now and then?
     
  16. Diesel66

    Diesel66 My standards for women is like rent-a-centers stan OT Supporter

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    nooner. go pick her up at work, take her someplace secluded and rape her
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl:
     
  18. Bailey

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    lick her ass. don't ask her, just do it
     
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    dont do it so often that its predictable..

    maybe watch porn together.. spice things up
     
  20. demosnat

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    You should be ecstatic that she talked to you about this instead of being passive aggressive or letting it eat away at your relationship :wiggle:
    Try new things, new times, new places.

    Viper, have you met women that say sex isn't important? I don't think i've ever heard anyone say that :o
     
  21. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    I hear girls say that it's not THAT important all the time.

    They may not say that it's NOT important, but I hear them say that it's not THAT important a lot.

    And it is. It's pretty damn important to a girl. I was actually surprised at how important that it can be to a girl. :dunno:
     
  22. demosnat

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    Its essential. Physical expression is harder to lie about. Its a much more pure and translatable form of communication than speech.
     
  23. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    :rofl::rofl:

    Don't use big words I don't understand or else I'll have to take them as disrespect.
     
  24. demosnat

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    :rofl:
    I just mean, its easy to lie/exaggerate how you feel. I feel like your guard is down during play/sex, and its easier to gauge whats actually going on.
     
  25. Viper

    Viper Livin' la vida scrotum OT Supporter

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    Who was it, Dane Cook? who said some shit like "My dick feels like corn" while banging some girl once.

    I bet the girl thought about that later and got made because he was comparing having sex with her to a common family farmhouse dinner. He was essentially saying "Sex with you is so boring, that I am thinking about corn" amirite?
     

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