Been dating this girl for about a month now, nothing commital, something just going with the flow, or so I thought. I called her saturday afternoon after i had been helping my roommate fix up his bike, and get it riding. I called her when we were done and said, "I'm going to take a shower, talk to my roomie to see what we're going to do, then i'll call you back" in what I thought was a nuetral tone, but she probably mistook my excitement about the bike running in being excited to see her. My roommate and I decide since we haven't ridden together in 8 months it'd be fun to ride out to dallas for dinner, just he and I. I call and tell her this and she seems fine with it. *read: i can hear in her voice something isn't sitting right with her, but she isn't going to bring it up, of course. So, we ride out to Dallas, and when i get there, and check my phone, i have this text waiting for me: "Hey, i don't want 2 put a damper on ur evening, but it was kind of shitty 2 call me, act excited about seeing me, and then completely cancel. I know your roommates been dwn and i hope he's feeling better. After a recent conversation we had and the lack of a resonse to my 'where r u 2 going' txt, it makes me wonder if u 2 r going 2 a strip club. I know we r not n a committed relationship, but i have 2 go with my gut. I don't even want 2 date a man that goes 2 strip clubs and would rather look at other naked girls than me." my initial response was I then realized she had sent me a text after getting on the bike "where r u 2 going' which i obviously couldn't respond to due to being on the bike. so. I'm thnking this text was out of line a little bit, and pretty much a deal killer IMO. It isn't about the strip club, or the the fact she thougth we were going to hang out, but it being manipulative, passive aggressive, and just generally an indication of some trust issues.