Most all of you have probably seen my other threads bitching about my girlfriend and how she doesnt appreciate me. Anyways, she went on a four day retreat (religious), she is religious and i am not. This meant alot to her and i tried to be supportive to her. I made her little presents, one was a bear with candy at the bottom (dots, sour patch kids, mike n ikes), and i seperated all the green and yellow because thats what she likes. Another present i gave her was everything i have kept since we started daiting and wrote her a 7 page letter on what they mean and how much i like her, stuff like that. And the thrid was an unexpected photo of her and i that was taken a really long time ago. Anyways she went on this trip, and i had a 4 day vacation with my best friend (not vacation, but like no school).
And i forgot how fun it was, and how care free it was, and i forgot about my other good friend that can always make me laugh, and i forgot about a girl that i have always cared for. It was the easiest weekend of my life, absolutely 100% care free.
Anyways, tonight i get a text from my girlfriend saying she wanted me to go to the closing ceremony thing, and i did. She told me it was at 6 15, and then proceded t get pissed that i was there at 6 and i was late (she made her mom call me, she couldnt even do it herself). Anyways, i get there and i sit down, she doesnt acknowldege me the whole nigh, not once. At the end of it, i get up to go see her. She brings another boy over and introduces him to her mom, not even looking at me.
At this time im pissed. She told me to go wait in the hallway for her, so i did, for 20 min. She came and started to walk out with that boy, and i told her our car was the other way (i may have said it annoyed, but i dunno), and then she got mad at me for that.
She then proceded to tell me that i dont care any more about us, etc. etc. etc. I told her if i didnt care i wouldnt have done the gift or came to her shit thing tonight, where she knows i hate it and knows im not religious, and knows i think its a fuckin colt. But no, that wasnt good enough for her. She told me that she was mad becuase i didnt go running to her and give her a hug, instead i sat down (because i was late). I told her that im sorry i dont live up to her standards, and left.
I still like her, shes just becomming hard to handle, and forgot how easy life was when i could just kick it with my friends and not care.
Sorry about the long rant, for those of you who read all of it, thanks.
I just really dont know what to do.
And i forgot how fun it was, and how care free it was, and i forgot about my other good friend that can always make me laugh, and i forgot about a girl that i have always cared for. It was the easiest weekend of my life, absolutely 100% care free.
Anyways, tonight i get a text from my girlfriend saying she wanted me to go to the closing ceremony thing, and i did. She told me it was at 6 15, and then proceded t get pissed that i was there at 6 and i was late (she made her mom call me, she couldnt even do it herself). Anyways, i get there and i sit down, she doesnt acknowldege me the whole nigh, not once. At the end of it, i get up to go see her. She brings another boy over and introduces him to her mom, not even looking at me.
At this time im pissed. She told me to go wait in the hallway for her, so i did, for 20 min. She came and started to walk out with that boy, and i told her our car was the other way (i may have said it annoyed, but i dunno), and then she got mad at me for that.
She then proceded to tell me that i dont care any more about us, etc. etc. etc. I told her if i didnt care i wouldnt have done the gift or came to her shit thing tonight, where she knows i hate it and knows im not religious, and knows i think its a fuckin colt. But no, that wasnt good enough for her. She told me that she was mad becuase i didnt go running to her and give her a hug, instead i sat down (because i was late). I told her that im sorry i dont live up to her standards, and left.
I still like her, shes just becomming hard to handle, and forgot how easy life was when i could just kick it with my friends and not care.
Sorry about the long rant, for those of you who read all of it, thanks.
I just really dont know what to do.
but, but blah blah blah i'll change blah blah good times we've had
@ Yail
I like your attitude. My ex one time was crying, so I sat next to her and tried to help her (she was stressed), and she pushed me away and said, "no i don't wanna deal witha nyone" and I said, "fine then i'm leaving" and walked away slowly. She said, "no, wait!" and she