I'm curious about the vag's thoughts on chemistry in a relationship. I never really understood it/ valued it in a relationship until I met "fiance". Before him, I had only had one real relationship. I think the only reason I really got into that relationship was because he was the first guy to really seem interested in me at all. Anyway, I had a lot of guy friends throughout high school and after. And (maybe this is creepy) I would try to look at them and 'evaluate' how I would fee being in a relationship with them. "Oh, hes cute looking" "hes funny" "he is a caring guy" Even in a physical way I would try to imagine being in a LTR with them. It was never bad, and I guess I figured one day it would work out with one of them, or someone new who came along, but under the same premise of being friends first. But when I met my fiance for the first time in person, it was a totally different story. We hung out for a week with our friends, and we had a great time. Toward the end of the week, I really started noticing something between us. And I'm sure this sounds weird, but it was like, I could feel what he was feeling. Like we had a connection. When we talked later about that time period, it was crazy how identical our thought processes were. I had NEVER felt SOOOO strongly about anyone before. Saying we 'hit it off' would be a huge understatement. After we left, I couldnt stop thinking about him at all for 2 days. Since then I've always felt we have had a deep connection. Not telepathy, but there are times where we can almost read each others minds. Our 'chemistry' is one of the biggest reasons I feel we will be good together as a married couple. And its something that has not worn off over the 3 years we have been together. Anyone else have thoughts about chemistry in a relationship? Experiences? Its just something I've been thinking about recently.