So my girlfriend and i broke up in january becuase it wasn't the right time in her life for a bf, she is as senior in hs, i'm in college, but we continued acting like boyfriend and girlfriend until March. I made a comment to one of my buddies that we were broken up but still sleeping together. Anyways since she got wind of that comment she has been a different girl. She just told me about a week ago that she still doesn't want a bf (which i told her she had to decide if she wanted to be together or not). She told me she has too much going on for a bf but still wants to be friends with benefits and still really likes me. Anyways I know it goes against traditional male beliefs, but I'm not just going to fuck around with her knowing we aren't together cuz I don't know who else she is fucking around with lol. So I wrote her a 1/2 page letter telling her goodbye. I have two questions, From a male or female prespective, what were her real reasons for breaking up? And secondly, is it wrong to say goodbye to someone in a letter?