In High School I played three varisty sports (captian of two), president of a Jr EMT group, Model United Nations (going to the confrence in NYC and debating), volunteered at an animal shelter, worked out 3-4 times a week, and ran 3+miles 3-4times a week. Everyone says I'm a very nice guy, willing to help anyone with anything, and normally in a upbeat mood. Since I've got to college I have pretty much lost all my motivation. I eat healthy and I get plenty of sleep. All I have the motivation to due is go to class on time, get all the hw done, and study for tests. My friends at college arn't really true friends. They will ridicule me for smallest things. Such as im lazy and will just put pants on over my shorts, I don't care if my hair is messy or combed, not eating every single bit of food on my plate. If I ask a question from "What show is this" to "How do I solve this problem" I get a long lecture about how retarded I am. If I talk about a girl I'm thinking about trying to get with, they will shoot me down and say I have zero chance. If I sleep more then 8hrs they will call my cell phone, send me IMs, or knock on my door till I wake up. Last I checked growing men need a lot of sleep, everyone is different, and I just happen to need a lot of sleep to feel good and refreshed (I turn my cell off at night, log off aim, and listen to music when I sleep so they don't wake me up). If I play video games for more then 2hrs they will claim I play every possible second, I currently play 7-14hrs/week. They are playing an easy 30+hrs I tried to explain a theory to them, and I get ragged on how stupid and unlogical it is. I prove it, they all shut up and don't have anything to say to prove me wrong, so instead they go on to make fun of something else about me. My buddies (about 7-8, including me) from High School didn't make fun of me/anyone for anything, unless everyone found it funny. If I didn't finish my food, they would ask to have it, any questions I asked they would explain without making me feel stupid. If I slept more then 8hrs, they didn't give a shit, none of us where getting up unless we have to. We all played video games, no cared how much you played. Any theories/ideas you would propose they would actually have a discussion instead of trying to insult your intelligence (Some times they would help improve your theory/idea). When it came to women, they would give you tips and pointers or just a talk to boost your moral to go talk to her. If you had an issue, they would help you out. Right now in College I am looking for good friends which is actually proving to be a challenge. I'm Trying to get into a workout routine, find parties, get into activities and go out on a few dates, but I just lack the motivation. I went from having a ton of self confidence and motivation to none. I would ask my High School buddies for help, but If anyone over heard us on the phone, read my email, or walked in and read my AIM over my shoulder without me noticing... I would never hear the end of it. Any help is grealty appreciated!