I lost another friend over a fight. Did not know him for to long and we did not really click all that great so I dont know why I am all stressed about it. Its just when ever something happens its never very quiet like. This is what happen. He called me up to go to the mall and at first I said no, I dont feel like going to the fucking mall because last time we went we were there for 4 hours, no joke. After him being like come on we can do something after I said ok, I will be over shorty. After this I just fucking remember last night I promised my mom I would be back at 6:30. So I roll up and I am like I only can stay at the mall for 20 minutes, he says ok I know what I want anyways. We get to the mall and its 6:00 So that leaves 20 minutes. I find out he is getting a pair of shoes and said he knew exactly what he wanted. He walks into this store then precedes to try on a pair of shoes. So I am like ok so you going to get those and he just says "Chill" call your girl. He tries on another pair, then walks around a bit then talks to the sales person and looks at some shirts, then pants, then socks. I am getting pissed at this point. 6:25 rolls around and he then heads over to check out. He has everything ringed up then he does not have enough money, so they had to go threw the process of taking everything off by going threw the return process and this requires them to take down name, number at a slow pace. 6:30 rolls around and this is the time I am suppose to be home, I am pissed but am like ok, you got it lets go. He fucking walks into another store, then looks at some more shoes. He is about to buy them but ends up being 4 bucks short and asks me for money, I dont have any then he asks me to take 20.00 out of the atm so he can borrow it. I know he would pay me back but its the fact that I had to be home 10 minutes ago. So I am like fuck no, lets go. He gets pissed off and starts to walk to the ATM like I am going to do it but I am quite serious on the matter of not doing it. At this point he says the word fight or something and I say "Fight me, what? and push him" Then he says if you hit me you will get arrested blah blah blah. I said "You are the one starting this you are going to hit me and get your ass handed to you" (I am 6'2) vs 5 something. So at this point is you are being a bitch let me get my shit out of your car and starts to follow me and then when we get them I am like "Are you going to walk or ride me with me" He grabs his cd calls me a bitch and bangs on my car again and walks off. WTF I am tired of taking shit from people. Did I go to far or do the right thing. I cant tell its like everytime I stand up for my self It starts shit and makes things worse then just taking it. I lose "friends" all the time because they dont respect my time, gas and money. Really did I do the right thing? I tried to just leave but he kept following me being like wtf you arnt going to leave your boy.