Just want someone else's opinion on my current situation. Long story but if anyone can help, much appreciated. I just want someone's opinion who i don't know, who can look at this unbaised. A couple of months ago my bestfriend tells me she's in love with me. At first i though it was a joke cause were always goofing around, but she sat me down one day and pretty much poured her heart out. I never thought of her in that way or anything so i kept my mouth shut and didn't really tell her anything back. Once i got home i realized how stupid it was not to say anything, so i called her and told her i wanted to meet her for lunch the following day. The next day i told her how i felt, and that i returned her feelings too. I mean this girl to me has it all and she has been the only girl that i have known that i have had a "healthy" realtionship with in terms of gf or just friend. We get along, no fights, same interests etc. The problem, she has a bf. I am cool with the bf but it's not like i call him out to hang out. She tells me she's leaving her bf, but she hasen't because now she's "confused". She says she doesn't love him and wants to leave him. Now for the past two months she keeps texting me about how she loves me, wants to be with me and all this other ish. Also there's the phone calls like 5 times a night and talking about being with me. My responce is always "if you want to be with me why don't you leave him?" and her's is "i am confused, what should i do?". I have tried giving her advice but it always goes in one ear and out the other, so i stopped and i just tell her "she's old enough to know what she want and she should do it". This girl is driving me fricking insane. Last week for example i went out with some friends and she called me. I didn't want to answer so my friend answers (girl). The girl hangs up the phone when my friend answers and calls one of our mutal friends to call me to find out which "girl" is answering my phone. Our mutal friend told me she was mad that some girl was answering my phone and she didn't like me hanging out with other girls. I was like WTF, she won't leave her bf but i can't hang out with other girls. My friends and some of our mutal friends have told me they think this girl is just messing with my head and she's not for real, but for some reason i can't just forget about her. I have tried and tried and nothing works. Then to top things off one of our mutal friend's keeps telling me that the girl is for real and i shouldn't think shes messing with my head. I trust the person telling me this which makes it worst beacuse it gives me a glimmer of hope and makes it harder to forget about her. Well thats the story, for anyone who read it thank you, help me. Personally i think i am going insane, i have been in love before but never this messed up.