Well some of you may know me from my previous thread: http://forums.offtopic.com/showthread.php?t=3704338 Anyways something weird happened after 2 weeks of posting that thread, I was off sick for a week and when I came back to school and saw that girl, normally I would have felt depressed again and self-conscious but weirdly enough I felt nothing. I was completely thrown by this and throughout the whole day, I didn't feel self-conscious at all. How can it go away so suddenly and soon, not that I'm moaning . But is it possible for it to have gone away so quickly, I look at her and just view her as the same as any girl. Anyways, I've moved on for the better and met this new girl. This is a quote from what someone else said which describes my feelings perfectly and exactly. She has a beautiful soul. There is no voice on this earth sweeter than hers. It's something else, it's angelic. Also the enthusiasm she has for each word- not 'phony, high pitched girly sounds'... but 'Real' happy-girl sounds. Her brown eyes are beautiful and they can be read like a book. They say more than 100 words with each expression. However, her smile has to be her very best quality... Big, bright, perfect and gorgeous. Every tooth fitting directly into it's place - flawless. She's passionate and can be wild at times. But inside she's pure, wholesome and innocent. Best of all though, she's a happy person. I guess she was destined to travel and show the world her beauty. Even her name is perfect, short and sweet. Anyways what signs are there or how do I tell if it's love (WTF) or infatuation?