So earlier this morning my g/f just freaked out on me and ended the relationship. We've been together for years, but have had our rough spots. Apparently I just don't give her what she wants. I'm extremely confused, yet I understand where she is coming from. She says I am not emotionally open to her and I don't make her feel loved and wanted. It's double-edged though because there are many times that I am emotionally distant and I am not that loving towards her... but in there are other times when I am more affectionate towards her than any other guy I know. She stated that I don't always smile when I see her, I don't always sound happy to talk to her on the phone, and I sometimes act annoyed with her... which I guess is true if I am in a certain mood... but I'm also very loving and affectionate towards her and make her VERY aware of the fact that I love her, want to marry her, and spend my life with her. This just really sucks. She is such a huge part of my life. My family loves her, my friends love her... she's just such an awesome girl. But she's had a lot of problems in her life lately with school, jobs, family life, etc... and she's become a rather angry person. She used to be so understanding and patient with me, but now she just explodes in anger and says some mean and hurtful things. The SMALLEST thing that I do will set her off and infuriate her. I love this girl tremendously. I was saving up money to put a ring on her finger next year, I was hoping to get a place with her soon, etc... but she has just gotten so angry with me and our relationship. During the "breakup speech" she said several times how I am like poison and make her feel like shit, and make her an unhappy person!! I don't even know how to respond to that! We were best friends, we were always there for each other. The thought of not having her around makes me sick to my stomach and scarred to death. I'm not sure what to do. I tried to reason with her, but she just isn't having it. I know I have not been the best boyfriend, and I feel terrible about it, but all this other stress in her life is causing her to cut me NO SLACK at al. I don't want to be without her, but I don't have a choice. She insists that we're not right for each other and I feel like I am going crazy. And since we had plans tonight, and now it's over, I am stuck with nothing to do on NYE. Most of my friends are going to a party over an hour away and I really don't feel like driving that far with all the drunken idiots on the road tonight. Gonna end up stuck inside sulking, lol.